Principle 19: How to react to feedbacks…

Did you ever told someone about how he looks? Did someone told you something about your appearance? how did you react? did you got mad? did it make you happy? what can you say?

People around us always has something to tell about us. We also have something to tell about to them. It maybe good or bad. It can be music to our ears or its gonna hurt us badly. Specially when the one who says it is our friend. Feedbacks are like opinions. they are distinguished by people through our appearance, observations and behavior. Its also how you socialize with other people. We get a lot of feedbacks everyday. they vary through different people. But how will me react on them? If it is a good feedback no problem keep it going. but what if it is a bad one? How will you respond to it specially when it criticizes you? For me, Its just simple. I embrace them and let them in me. I take them as opportunities to be a better individual. don’t let criticism stop you. It will hurt but if you don’t move on, it wont go also. Welcome them and improve on those aspects. Be sure also that you hear all of what he/she has to say and say sorry of you have done something wrong. Its gonna help a lot emotionally and in your career.

Principle 17: A deep fear

It is always what I am afraid of. As much as possible I don’t want to do it (much worst when its something I want). It is to ASK. Why? Because I’m afraid of rejection! I don’t want having NO for an answer, it tears me inside. It makes me weak. Let’s take for example. I want to go somewhere. If they say NO, It breaks me. It makes me sad. I feel they just don’t want me to enjoy, being happy. One reason also is that I am shy. I am afraid of what they would say. I am also afraid of the hot seat. I fear criticism. I don’t like them saying, what time will you be home? Be early. What if you did not come on time? This is the last time. Even if a say a number their time would be the one considered. I just feel that I did not have freedom. Yes, they will let me go out but with many terms and condition. Its not that they are wrong, It’s the feeling that you are like being monitored all the time. You are like a dog with a chain. So asking them is just like a formality that you will follow them. That is why I am afraid asking. But before, I never realized that rejection was part of asking. I thought it was made to feel other people ashamed of themselves. To left them embarrassed. It came to me that asking is a risk. It’s a natural part of it. You won’t lose anything when you ask. Much more you will lose when you don’t. Ask ask ask! You wont know something you don’t know till you ask.

Principle 16: A thing called “success”.

Every great thing that happened to each one of us contains with it an inspiring story. A story that we were in before we became successful. The story written by our faith and perseverance. And played by the best actor and directed by the brightest director. Ourselves. Along the story, we curved the path to our victory. We have gathered enough strength and determination to overcome obstacles along the way. We have tackled many problems physically, mentally, emotionally and many more. But what separates us from the ordinary is that we are willing to pay the price. We are willing to do anything in our hand to build our dreams. It is not easy as said. Many of us failed before even grabbing a grasp of success. We must be ready for a give and take relationship with opportunity. Learn to give and go. Dreaming to be successful is not enough. We must be ready at all cost and be willing to pay the price to purchased a thing called “success”.

Principle 4: having a positive mind-set…

when playing DOTA, it is always my mind-set that my team will win the match, even if where in a tight situation like mismatch in the heroes, lag, delay, players and many more. I always say, “kaya yan”. Even if we lose, again and again my mind-set is WIN. Now, i carried that attitude through my life, my mind-set now is I can do anything and do everything I can with all my will and power. having a positive mind-set too can help you against stress, anger and other unhelpful emotions. Even if what we want did not happen, don’t lose hope and never quit. Have a fighting spirit strong as people who were many times rejected and never lose hope. If they cant do it, so we can!

SUCCESS is for those who dont give up.

“it is better to fail in doing something, than to excel in doing nothing. For even a flawed diamond is more valuable than a perfect brick, and people who have no failures only have few victories, sometimes a winner is just a winner who never gives up”

A lot of us wants to be successful. Many of us wants to be famous. But before we can be those “who we want to be” we must start from the very edge. The basics. One of the primary things we must have is the will. For me, its the first one because if you don’t have the will to be successful, you won’t be successful forever. The will to be successful must be in your heart. Not in the brain. Because many us always think of the M word. Money. Money is just the prize. Second one is the guts to face your fears. Many unfortunate matters will come our way before we achieve success. It includes, frustrations, heartbreaks, loneliness and many more. We must accept all those of think of them as blessings and don’t doubt that you will not be successful because of those. Learn to put them on the past and never linger on them. Third one is the will to do anything.We must be willing do anything to be successful. We must be strong on our feelings and never let those feelings win over you. Fourth is initiative. We must have the initiative to be successful. We must lead the way and find people who can be a help for us. Make them feel the feeling that you are willing to do anything and you need their help. Not financially, but Inspirational moments on their road or advices along that usually everyone who wants to be successful encounters. Must be keep intact of your goal and set aside things that might not help you because they can be a burden sometime on your way. Lastly for me, You must enjoy what you are doing. Its the one that matter’s most. That even if they do not pay you, you will do it. Make it just like a hobby. Just like that. You must always be happy in everything you do, for in happiness there is contentment.

Fountain of Life

We need water all our life. We use it when we take a bath, cook, wash dishes, wash our clothes etc. when we drink it, we feel refreshened it eases our tire. Its the fuel of the body. It cleanses the body. Water also is a habitat. A home for fishes, crustaceans, corals and many more. It can also be a source of electricity. Falls, dams are being used to supply electricity for the city. In total, water is huge part of our lives.

Water is one of the primary reasons why living things on Earth live. It covers 71% of the Earth’s surface. Its chemical formula is h2o meaning 2 hydrogen atoms and 1 oxygen atom. Many water resources now are being poisoned. Because of the careless throwing of garbages to rivers, sewages, irrigation and other water lanes. Because of these garbages, the circulation of water is being stationary and causes floods on low places.

Will there be a time that seas be dry, rivers empty? Could there be a time that Water will be bought expensively. We will have limited source. What you think? Will these things happening now make us suffer soon? You judge.

Principle 1: “with great power comes great responsibility”

“with great power comes great responsibility” -words uttered by Uncle Ben to Peter Parker in the movie “Spiderman”. we humans have great power that God gave us. Like Spiderman, before he knew his potential in saving the town, he was bitten by a red-blue spider. We too humans we’re bitten by God’s love. He gave us talents. Talents which we have to nurture and develop.

“Whatever life holds in store for me, I will never forget these words: “With great power comes great responsibility.” This is my gift, my curse. Who am I? I’m Spiderman”

Like Spiderman, He took the 100% responsibility of his life! he took the responsibility to be Spiderman! Many of us will ask God why he chose us if we are to be Spiderman. He has been successful in saving town. We know there came a time that he wants to quit, give up, forget being Spidey and become a normal person again. These things come into our lives once in a while. Me too. There came a time in my life that I totally gave up. but now, here I am again. I came to realize all the hardships and trials I tackled we’re just meant to keep us stronger. I am truly sorry that i gave up and promise not to do that anymore. After Spidey realize what Aunt May said. “He knows a hero when he sees one. Too few characters out there, flying around like that, saving old girls like me. And Lord knows, kids like Henry need a hero. Courageous, self-sacrificing people. Setting examples for all of us. Everybody loves a hero. People line up for them, cheer them, scream their names. And years later, they’ll tell how they stood in the rain for hours just to get a glimpse of the one who taught them how to hold on a second longer. I believe there’s a hero in all of us, that keeps us honest, gives us strength, makes us noble, and finally allows us to die with pride, even though sometimes we have to be steady, and give up the thing we want the most. Even our dreams. Suddenly Peter Parker realized what he has done wrong. He wants to be Spiderman again. but before his comeback. he must gain 100% of us his powers again, the web the crawling the wall, etc. he took again 100% responsiblity of the safe of the city.

One must take 100% responsiblity on everything to achieve full success. must quit complaining, excuses, blaming for they just dont help you in doing what you want, what you really have. A life without blaming, excuses and complaining would be a huge help and advantage. It also helps you spritually and emotionally. because when you complain it needs emotion. when you blame, you need emotion. if you give an excuse, you need emotion. It will just be stressful for you those things and it will also be a help to God if you quit doing those. Just follow your heart in everything you do like now, Peter Parker is in a new battle i think with himself,(sorry I haven’t watch Spiderman III) Lets all overcome are doubts and battle the things that won’t help us achieve what we want where we want to be.

Going Back To Don Bosco…

If you have read my previous blog, its been 5yrs since i left Don Bosco, but now, Its the return of the comeback! I’m going back there to study. My course is Computer repair and maintenance. Its not credited for my college but it worth it. I want to help my uncle to put up his website. my next tutorial would be web page design. pls visit his sit here. I’m so excited now to go there. a feeling i felt before. i feeling that’s a pleasure to the heart. I’m so glad i had this opportunity again. Its an honor for me study there again. Its a dream come true.

many nights that i have been dreaming playing with my old classmates, eating at the canteen. i think its not a coincidence. i think its destined to for me. its clear to me now that the saying is true, “once a bosconian, always a bosconian”

A dream come true or a homecoming?

Is it a only a dream? or reality?

Many nights i will sleep soundly, when i wake up, a feel glad, is it because of a dream? maybe, ive dreaming lately, of playing with my old pals in Don Bosco, believe it or not. I just dont know what to say, is it a calling for me? i cant belive it myself, what does these dreams mean? i’ve always loved Don Bosco, is he calling me? I sure loved to study there! its been many years since i left Don Bosco now. if I stand correct its been 5yrs now.  Studying in Don Bosco in Tarlac was a memorable one for me. I met nice friends, teachers, and other stuffs. a wonderful experience that left a mark in my heart. after finishing my studies at Tarlac State University-Laboratory school, im off to college! ah, no. hehe.

i’ll be starting my tutorial tomorrow at Don Bosco Technical College Mandaluyong. I dont know what to say, its just, overwhelming.

 

Principle 6: An inverse paranoid

an inverse paranoid is defined by Dr. Bimler as someone who thinks everyone is out to make him/her happy. I define is simply as “the world is made for you”. If your trying to read “The Success Principles” by Jack Canfield, if you’ve already encountered Principle no. 6 its entitled “become an inverse Paranoid”. If I have learned this earlier in my life, I think this would be a huge advantage for me. but now, I thought of it as a HUGE Turn Around in my life. It motivated and inspired me to live my daily life as “already planned” now. I feel a new joy in me. It gave me new life. fill with no worries and inner anger for others. WE must think that unfortunate events in our life are BLESSINGS IN DISGUISE. we must accept them and move on. thats it. or for better use, we can use them as an inspiration or motivation to strive harder, study smart, enjoy our life. Do not linger in the past and be frustrated of what happened earlier in your life. I think nobody wants that that would happen to us. And i think its part of life. a part of a great purpose for us. I call it “THE BLUEPRINT OF MY SUCCESS”. We would be successful if we think this way and also be happy. lets think of these things as blessings. lets be thankful that we have them. ^^]